What if my child can't sit still? Is kids' church safe? How can English-speaking kids and Chinese-speaking parents go together? A practical guide for parents.
Some Chinese families start looking for a church because of their children: good friends, good character, knowing the Bible. Here's what parents usually ask.
How do kids' programmes work?
It varies, but commonly the family starts the service together, then after the singing the children go to kids' church, grouped by age, for a Bible story, songs and craft. Parents collect them at the end. Some churches also have a parents' room for babies.
Is it safe?
Sydney Anglican churches have Safe Ministry requirements, and leaders who serve children receive training. Under NSW law, people doing child-related work also need a Working With Children Check. On your first visit you'll usually register your child's name and your contact details, with sign-in and sign-out at pick-up.
Kids speak English, parents speak Chinese?
Very common in Sydney. Some options:
- Parents attend a Chinese service while kids join an English kids' programme at the same time
- The whole family attends an English service and parents use Chinese translation (see English churches with Chinese translation)
- Some churches run Chinese and English services back to back
Which churches have kids' programmes?
Church pages show whether there's a kids' programme, for example St Andrew's Cathedral, St Paul's Kogarah, Lidcombe Anglican, St John's Parramatta and St Paul's Carlingford. Find churches by area first, then check the page. For age groups and times, contact the church.
Tips for parents
- Arrive 15 minutes early the first time to meet the teacher
- Bring water and a snack, and mention any allergies
- If your child doesn't want to go to the group, it's fine to keep them with you
First visit? Read First time at church.